" The Apostle of Allah (ﷺ) happened to pass by a woman (who was sitting) by the side of a grave."
Sahih Muslim Book 11, Hadith 19
← Previous Hadith Fear Allah and show endurance. She (not recognising him) said: You have not been afflicted as I have been. When he (the Holy Prophet) had departed, it was said to her that he was the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ), she was mortally shocked. She came to his door and she did not find doorkeepers at his door. She said: Messenger of Allah. I did not recognise you. He said: Endurance is to be shown at first blow, or at the first blow.

Sahih Muslim Book 11, Hadith 18 Next Hadith → Be quiet, my daughter. Don't you know that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) had said:" The deceased is punished because of his family's weeping over the death"?

Sahih Muslim Book 11, Hadith 20