"The Prophet (ﷺ) said, 'The best alms is that which is given when one is rich, and a giving hand is better
than a taking one, and you should start first to support your dependents.' A wife says, 'You should
either provide me with food or divorce me.' A slave says, 'Give me food and enjoy my service." A son
says, "Give me food; to whom do you leave me?" The people said, "O Abu Huraira! Did you hear that
from Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) ?" He said, "No, it is from my own self."
Sahih al-Bukhari Book 69, Hadith 5