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Hadith 35061
Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafi from Safiyya bint Abi
Ubayd from A'isha and Hafsa, the wives of the Prophet, may Allah bless
him and grant him peace, that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless
him and grant him peace, said, "It is not halal for a woman in
mourning for someone who has died, if she trusts in Allah and the Last
Day, to abstain from adornment for more than three nights, except for
a husband."
Muwatta Malik Book 29, Hadith 115
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Zaynab said, "I heard my mother, Umm Salama, the wife of the
Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say that a woman
came to the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, and said, 'Messenger of Allah! My daughter's husband died, and
her eyes are troubling her, can she put kohl on them?' The Messenger
of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'No' two or
three times. Then he said, 'It is only four months and ten days. In
the Jahiliyya, none of you threw away the piece of dung until a year
had passed.' "
Humayd ibn Nafi said, "I asked Zaynab to
explain what 'throwing away the piece of dung at the end of a year'
meant. Zaynab said, 'In the Jahiliyya when a woman's husband died, she
went into a small tent and dressed in the worst of clothes. She did
not touch perfume or anything until a year had passed. Then she was
brought an animal - a donkey, a sheep, or a bird, and she would break
her idda with it, by rubbing her body against it (taftaddu). Rarely
did she break her idda with anything (by rubbing herself against it)
but that it died. Then she would come out and would be given a piece
of dung. She would throw it away and then return to whatever she
wished of perfumes or whatever.' "
Malik explained,
'Taftaddu' means to wipe her skin with it in the same way as with a
healing charm." Muwatta Malik Book 29, Hadith 114
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Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that Umm Salama,
the wife of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said
to a woman in mourning for her husband whose eyes were troubling her
and the pain had become very strong, "Apply jala kohl at night and
wipe it off in the day." Muwatta Malik Book 29, Hadith 116