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When I got married, Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to me, "What type of lady have you married?" I replied, "I
have married a matron' He said, "Why, don't you have a liking for the virgins and for fondling them?"
Jabir also said: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you might play with
her and she with you?'
Sahih al-Bukhari Book 67, Hadith 18
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While we were returning from a Ghazwa (Holy Battle) with the Prophet, I started driving my camel
fast, as it was a lazy camel A rider came behind me and pricked my camel with a spear he had with
him, and then my camel started running as fast as the best camel you may see. Behold! The rider was
the Prophet (ﷺ) himself. He said, 'What makes you in such a hurry?" I replied, I am newly married " He
said, "Did you marry a virgin or a matron? I replied, "A matron." He said, "Why didn't you marry a
young girl so that you may play with her and she with you?" When we were about to enter (Medina),
the Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Wait so that you may enter (Medina) at night so that the lady of unkempt hair may
comb her hair and the one whose husband has been absent may shave her pubic region.
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The Prophet (ﷺ) asked Abu Bakr for `Aisha's hand in marriage. Abu Bakr said "But I am your brother."
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "You are my brother in Allah's religion and His Book, but she (Aisha) is lawful for
me to marry."