‘Weep, and if you cannot weep then pretend to weep.”
Sunan Ibn Majah Book 37, Hadith 97
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Sunan Ibn Majah Book 37, Hadith 96 Next Hadith → “There is no believing slave who sheds tears, even if they are like the head of a fly, out of fear of Allah, and they roll down his cheeks, but Allah will forbid him to the Fire.”

Sunan Ibn Majah Book 37, Hadith 98